My interest in dating and relationships began in 2012 as something deeply personal. I wanted to overcome my own shyness, become more confident, and understand why some conversations create a connection while others go nowhere.
What started as self-improvement gradually became a long-term interest. I spent years learning through real interactions, writing about my experiences on a Polish dating blog, and helping other men make sense of their own challenges. In 2019, I wrote a Polish-language book titled “Psychologia kobiet” (“The Psychology of Women”), which sold more than 1,000 copies in Poland.
In 2021, I took a different path and began building a career in software engineering. Dating content moved into the background, but the way I approached problems changed. Engineering taught me to think more clearly, question assumptions, and pay attention to what actually works.
Now I’m returning to writing with a new perspective. Date Engineer combines years of real-world dating experience with the analytical mindset I use in software development. I share honest observations, practical lessons, and real interactions—including the ones that do not go according to plan.